Live a life of ease with a willing attitude.
writer Tai Zaizhi wrote in disqualification:
in the so-called "human world" so far, the only thing I am willing to regard as the truth is this sentence, everything will pass.
only when you learn to let go can you be happy.
only when you really look down on everything, can you live a better life.
in good times, take a light view
once I watched a talk show on TV, which happened to be a star I used to like very much.
A few years ago, when he was in the heyday of his acting career, he chose to retire from the entertainment industry, and the outside world speculated that there were different reasons.
now I know that although he gained both fame and fortune at that time, he was not happy. He felt that this was not what he wanted, so he decided to live in a different way.
the host asked him that he really didn't have a trace of nostalgia when he left so decisively.
Yes, the rich material reward, many people can not reach the pursuit, but he easily gave up.
he mused for a moment and said slowly that it was a lie to say that there was no entanglement at that time, but that it was all false fame and false profit.
"I said to myself, you don't have that large audience, so don't be so tired."
with that, the whole audience was silent, and then there was a long round of applause.
maybe it's time for you to be successful.
with splendor and wealth, the people around you are coming one after another.
but don't forget to remind yourself that everything will pass.
as the saying goes, "the success or failure of right and wrong turns empty, Castle Peak is still there, several sunsets are red."
think about those who have achieved success through the ages, whose life is immutable?
the Great Wall is still there today, but there is no Qin Shihuang at that time.
since you don't touch a thing when you come, you will be alone when you go.
Why bother to control the good mood for the things you can't keep?
likes a sentence that writer Liu Liangcheng said very much:
many years later, you can see that people who gallop on fast horses and those who ride slowly on the backs of cows are as old as those who come back to the village, and they age at the same rate. Time doesn't care who runs fast or slow.
everything in the past is a preface.
Life will not be wasted forever, nor will it always go smoothly.
if you look down on everything, your heart will be relieved.
Let go of others, but also let go of their own, indifferent to fame and wealth, the gains and losses of light, naturally will be much happier.
as said in the movie Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon:
"when you clench your hands, there is nothing in them; when you open them, the world is in your hands."
in times of adversity, take it easy
there is a saying that life has no ifs, only consequences and results.
most people suffer from two things in their lives: one is what they cannot get, and the other is what they have already lost.
in fact, no matter what you can't get or what you have lost, if you grasp too much, some will sneak away through your fingers.
No matter how beautiful it is, no matter how deep the memory is, you have to learn to let go after all.
people who are always addicted to pain find it difficult to live a good life now, and those who only stare at regrets often fail to see a bright future.
my friend once told me such a thing:
that year, I failed in my business. I sighed all day, and my family dared not persuade me.
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one day, my father took out a bag of seeds and said he would throw it away. "Why throw away a bag of good seeds?" I asked my father.
"this is a bag of seeds from last year. This spring has passed. There is no chance for these seeds to germinate. What is the use of keeping seeds that cannot germinate?" Father said.
"but there is still spring next year." I reminded my father, "won't they still sprout when they are sown next spring?"
Father said meaningfully:
"the seed missed this spring, and next spring, isn't it the same with life? Son, if you miss a chance to succeed, will you miss it forever? No! Because there is still hope of success next spring! "
my friends were greatly encouraged to delve into the cause of failure and finally reaped what they have achieved today.
the road of life has never been plain sailing, and many people have tasted the taste of failure countless times before success.
so he never recovered and jumped into the bitter sea of failure and refused to swim ashore for a long time.
in fact, everyone is haunted by life sometimes.
maybe it's because his career has reached a bottleneck, and there is nowhere to tell about the pain of middle age; maybe he has just had a big fight with his lover, and there is nowhere to put chicken feathers in the marriage.
but please remember one sentence: there is no impassable thing, only an impassable heart.
the so-called bottomless abyss may lead to a bright future.
in the movie Lenin in 1918, during the chaotic period, when there was a shortage of supplies, the guard Vassili gave his wife a loaf of bread and firmly told his wife:
"there will be bread, milk, everything."
Yes, setbacks will come and pass; tears will flow down, and they will stop, and everything will pass.
Life can be a jerk sometimes. It can torture you and treat you well at the same time.
if you suffer from a little prank, happiness will be far away from you.
time flies, time goes by, flowers bloom and fall, sunrise and sunset.
Don't be upset when you have just experienced a failure, always remind yourself that there is still spring next year!
everything will pass
I have seen such a question: can time really cure everything?
the following comment is shocking:
We are not sure whether we can cure anyone. After all, we can't empathize with each other, but the time has come. Big and small things have become a thing of the past. Major injuries and minor injuries will be healed.
Love and hate become experience; good things and bad things become a thing of the past.
there are really no hurdles in this world that cannot be crossed, and there are no people who can't let go. Some are just your heart is imprisoned by yourself, and you can't get out of it.
there is such a short story:
the courtyard is full of flowers, and when winter comes, everything will wither.
when the little disciple saw Master cleaning the fallen flowers as if nothing had happened, he asked sadly, "Master, aren't you sad?"
Master said calmly, "I already shed tears for it yesterday."
when spring comes, the courtyard will blossom with flowers.
the little apprentice was overjoyed and wondered, "Master, don't you like flowers? all the flowers in the yard are blooming. Why don't you see how happy you are?"
Master smiled and said, "I was happy for it yesterday."
Life is like a vine, flowers do not like, flowers do not worry about falling.
No matter when it starts, it will be a thing of the past.
accept the brilliance or gloom of life calmly and put them all in yesterday, so that you can always have a happy state of mind and optimistic state of mind.
since Lin Qingxuan said, "nine times out of ten things go wrong in life."
then we might as well "always think about one or two, not eight or nine, and everything goes well."
the avenue is as simple as it is, and its complexity is in the hearts of the people.
when you have everything in your hand, tell yourself: what you have will be lost, and it will all pass!
when you are stuck in a quagmire, tell yourself: suffering is temporary, and it will all pass!
instead of chasing after him, it is better to let nature take its course; instead of feeling lost, it is better to let things happen.
Buddha said: forgive everything before going to bed, wake up is a new life!
No matter how bad things happen today, when you meet people you don't want to see, they shouldn't be fetters from the bottom of your heart.
close your eyes, let the night take away your restless heart, and let bygones be bygones.
Life is not long, with a willing attitude, live a life of ease.
you should always believe that if you live, there will be endless hope and unexpected warmth.
only by allowing yourself to face the gains and losses of honor or disgrace in life, can you free up more time and energy to take care of the scenery that has not been discovered.
New year, may you walk through Pinghu misty rain, go through years, mountains and rivers, taste all kinds of life, and usher in a more vivid and thorough life!
one book a week, no matter how busy it is, don't forget to recharge it.
Wen Qian, professional teacher of university broadcast host, Putonghua tester, member of Hubei recitation artists Association.