For the rest of our lives, may we all meet people who match our souls.
once saw such a question on the Internet:
"do you think two people get along with each other and what does each other do? it makes you feel sense of security-like."
the most liked comment is: "reply in time, ask and answer."
but some people have questioned under the comments:
"No one can guarantee that the phone will not leave the phone 24 hours a day. What if you are busy or don't see it?"
the author replied:
"the one who really has you in his heart, who is down-to-earth and reliable, will not miss any of your conversations."
"feelings need to go both ways, and messages full of anticipation should not be blanks that have not been heard for a long time."
so you see, those who deliberately reply late, or even those who ignore you, are unreliable and more untrustworthy.
the little things can be seen by the character, but the details can be seen in the hearts of the people. the way a person returns to Wechat, there is a hidden degree of attentiveness of this person.
whether a person is worthy of a deep acquaintance can be seen in the small details of replying to a message.
contact frequently and sincerely
Last week, I made an appointment with some old classmates I haven't seen for a long time.
Lao Liu was scheduled to go on a business trip. I heard that we were going to get together, so he drove over without saying a word.
the rest of us go to the end of the world as soon as we graduate. It's not easy to get together this time, and everyone always has a lot to say.
is talking about fun, but Lao Liu's mobile phone keeps vibrating.
Lao Liu said he was sorry and hurriedly picked up his cell phone to reply to the message.
A friend saw it and joked: "what, a group of us are here, and none of our mobile phones are attractive?"
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Lao Liu smiled and explained, "I have to reply to the message from this man."
as he opened Wechat for release, a childish and brisk voice came from the other end of the phone:
"Dad, when are you coming back?
Dad, what delicious food did you eat? "
and Lao Liu didn't feel impatient at all, but answered all the questions on the other end of the phone patiently.
Lao Liu said that no matter how hard and tired he was, his wife and children never complained about him.
he couldn't bear to see that his family always had a heart hanging over him, so he would reply every time.
hearing this, all of us at the table were touched.
as Fu Seoul said:
"leisure, leisure and affection are all idle.
if there is love in the busy, it is the truth. "
people are always related to each other.
when enthusiasm is given to the wrong person, it is a kind of disturbance; if you really give it to the wrong person, you will only be full of regret.
when you are with someone who really cares about you, you can only pay equal attention to what you give.
there is a ruler to speak and a degree to play
Bondarev once said:
"the root of all human suffering stems from the lack of a sense of boundary."
Yes, it is a disaster for people to get too close to each other, and those good relationships all have their own sense of boundary.
singer Wu Qixian once shared an experience that gave him a headache.
it was two o'clock in the morning and he was already very sleepy.
I could have had a good night's sleep, but suddenly Wechat rang.
seeing the video chat sent by a friend, Wu Qixian was worried that something big had happened and hurriedly picked it up.
as a result, the other side is very lively:
"Old Witch, we are singing your song at KTV. Listen!"
Wu Qixian felt no sense of drowsiness when he was so upset, but there was nothing to blame, but he just hung up the phone.
unexpectedly, after a while, the other party sent another video invitation.
before Wu Qixian opened his mouth, the other party said:
"the signal was not good just now. I'll try again and listen to you."
the other end of the phone was talking and laughing, but Wu Qixian held his breath.
he said angrily:
"this kind of person should be blocked directly!"
No wonder Wu Qixian loses his temper and gets along with friends. No matter how close the relationship is, he should retain the least respect.
the way you reply to a message just exposes the lowest point of a person's character.
the people with the lowest EQ I have ever met do not regard themselves as outsiders.
if you are out of line when you get along with each other, it is not a good relationship with each other, and it is called causing trouble to others.
to be a man, you should know how to measure, know how to transposition, and weigh your position in each other's heart, so that you can get along comfortably and naturally.
the highest personality charm of a person is knowing the distance between closeness and closeness.
reply in time, never snub
I have always thought that the most obvious pattern is to reply in time.
I still remember that when I first joined the job, I needed to communicate the work requirements with many leaders frequently.
among them, there is a senior who has the largest official position, but he also impresses me the most.
every time I send her a file, she will reply in time: copy.
sometimes when she is too busy, she will tell me in advance:
"I have something else at hand now. I'll get back to you later."
there is a saying that these leaders already have a lot to do.It is impossible to hold a mobile phone all the time, and it is common to be busy and forget.
I was ready to remind her again before I got off work.
as a result, she contacted me first, saying that the reply was late. I'm sorry, I've read the file, and there's no problem.
during the whole working period, whenever I met and communicated with her, I not only felt at ease, but also felt respected.
in the information age, people communicate with each other through the screen. You never know how anxiously that person is waiting on the other end of the phone.
some people, who do not reply for the first time, ask him and say that it is not necessary.
did not reply for the second time, asked, said that he had forgotten.
We have to admit that reassuring is an ability.
A person who receives a reply has a sense of responsibility, is tolerant of others, and is worthy of deep acquaintance.
Voltaire once said:
"it is not the distant mountain that makes people tired, but a grain of sand in the shoe."
some people may think that replying to messages is making a mountain out of a molehill.
but if you want to see clearly the nature of a person, you have to start with such details.
after all, our life is full of trivial daily life, friendship or love, only those who can grasp the details can control life.
the person who receives the reply has a sincere and reliable charm;
people with moderate speech get along with each other with a cordial and natural aura.
, may we all meet people who match our souls for the rest of our lives.