In marriage, the most terrible thing is not domestic violence, not cheating, but.
In marriage, the most terrible thing is not domestic violence, not cheating, but.
When you have the ability to arrange your life properly, the whole world will be kind to you.

when browsing Weibo, I saw such a topic: "if my husband is having an affair, should he borrow money for divorce?"

if this event is added, "50 days after the birth of the baby, you are penniless"



the comments section holds different views: some people say that for the sake of children and money, you can't get divorced; others think that cheating is unbearable, and you have to leave to borrow money.

but the answer of one of the mothers was unanimously agreed:

just 50 days after the baby was born, she found that her husband was having an affair, and what was even more desperate was that she had not saved a penny in recent years because of her over-reliance on her husband.

this means that she doesn't even have the 30,000 yuan of legal fees she needs for divorce, let alone living security in the future.

in the struggle, she finally made the decision to divorce. Even if she borrows money from a borrower, she will file for divorce.

later, she said, "borrowing money for divorce was the most difficult but correct decision in my life."

Yes, money is a person's greatest strength at any time.

it is better to rely on water than to rely on yourself. it is not enough to have someone to love you. More importantly, you should be rich.

Oscar Wilde has a saying that he likes very much:

"when I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in the world. I didn't know until I was old. That's true."

money is really too important.


once you need money, you will understand

once saw such a clip in the first issue of variety show:

an aunt took her dachshund to see a doctor. The dog's belly was twice as big as usual because of severe abdominal water.

but when the doctor said that 1700 yuan would be needed for a preliminary examination, the aunt was about to leave with the dog in her arms and said she was dead.

at this time, the doctor's attitude changed, and even the barrage criticized: "since you raised it, why not be responsible for it!" How stingy. "

Auntie was silent for a while before she told the truth. It was not that she didn't want to treat it, but that she had no money to treat it.

Auntie's wife has a tumor and is still in hospital for chemotherapy. The family is already strapped for money.

despite the heavy burden on the family, the aunt finally ruthlessly paid out the 1700 yuan.

the dog has been with the family for 14 years and has a deep affection. The decision to give up a life is difficult for the aunt.

but if you have money, you don't have to make this cruel decision.

in the face of life, even if animals are like this, people are even more vulnerable.

there are many things that you will understand when you need money.

with money, you can resist the big and small difficulties in life; with money, you have the strength to protect the one you love; with money, you have the ability to ease the pain on your sickbed.

Zhang ailing said:

"I like money because I haven't suffered from it. I don't know the disadvantages of money. I only know the advantages and disadvantages of money."

Yes, how happy it is to live a life with no shortage of money. I think only those who have experienced poverty can experience it, because money can really save lives!

having money means that you have enough sense of security to face the ups and downs of life without having to panic.


Marriage can be unhappy, but women must be rich

I have heard such a story before: a woman, nearly 50 years old, was temporarily idle at home because her factory closed down.

one day, when a woman was shopping in the mall, she took a fancy to a pair of shoes worth 368 yuan. She always struggled with whether to buy them or not. After putting up with it for a long time, she still bought them ruthlessly.

unexpectedly, my husband was furious that night.

there are two reasons:

the price of shoes is 368 yuan. As a housewife, they should not be so extravagant. A bargain of one hundred and eighty yuan is enough.

to spend such a large sum of money without the permission of a man.

the woman was so sad that she cried all night and returned her shoes early the next morning.

people often ask me what I can't lack in my life.

my answer is that there can be no shortage of money.

with money, you don't have to look down on people and ask for help everywhere.

with money, you can live without the pressure of life and have the courage to start all over again.

the real sense of security is always given to yourself. Financial independence is a person's long-term meal ticket.

this ticket must be held in your own hand, which is as important as your ID card.

because this meal ticket allows you to face the shocks of life without worry, because this meal ticket allows you to live with confidence.

people don't have to have a lot of money, but they must not be short of money, even if they have money in it, they can give themselves a way out!

when you have the ability to arrange your life properly, the whole world will be kind to you.


Don't think about it, make more money when you have time

Liu Yuling, who became popular again because of the US TV series "deadly woman," once said: she has been working hard to save money after work to set up a "FMurray k you fund" for herself.

when your boss wants to fire you or ask you to do something you don't want to do, you can confidently dump him, "I'm rich."

for this bottomAngry, she hardly had a day off in the first seven years of Hollywood alone.

worked as a secretary during the day, worked as a restaurant waiter at night, and worked as a dance instructor on weekends.

We often say that money is a person's greatest strength.

Life is not easy, so what is the purpose of making money?

I think it's possible:

is to eat what you want, drink what you want, and play what you want to play when you are sad, instead of looking at your meagre savings to dry your tears and say "forget it".

is to be able to buy your favorite clothes decisively when you see them in the mall, rather than figuring out when they are on sale and which styles are cheaper.

is to make their own money faster than their parents grow old, so that when their parents are sick, they can give them better protection, rather than leaving lifelong regrets because of lack of money.

is to have the right to choose happiness, when you meet an excellent person, you can confidently tell him, "you are fine, but I am not bad".

always remember that other people's money is either not enough for you or not for you. As long as the money you earn is the most real, spend your money and do what you want to do.

so, work hard. May you walk in the wind, have love in your heart, have money in your pocket, and live a confident and beautiful self.




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Wen Qian, professional teacher of university broadcast host, Putonghua tester, member of Hubei recitation artists Association.