Marriage is a self-cultivation.
Marriage is a self-cultivation.
There are trees in the mountains, and the stars are just like you last night.

"

an uncle

A few days ago, I received a message from a book friend backstage:

said Qixi Festival was coming, and she finally got a license with her boyfriend. Although the ending of the last relationship is not happy, but fortunately, God left the best gift in the end.

is sincerely happy for her, because everything is the best arrangement.

after decades of life, countless people have moved us, but in the end, only one has made up his mind.

Uncle

recently read a book in which he devoted his love at first sight and the case after marriage to a piece of paper and a pen.

the night is as cold as water, lying down to watch Petunia Vega.

this Qixi Festival, let's walk into the six stories of floating Life, which is known as "A Dream of small Red Mansions in the Qing Dynasty", and feel the cloth life of Sanbai and Yun Niang who "only envy mandarin ducks but not immortals".

I believe that after reading the article, you can also find someone who understands you to spend the rest of your life together.

-01-

like a rainbow, you don't know until you meet

.

WeChat moments read this passage:

the process of falling in love with someone is like looking in the mirror. If your soul is really seen by another person, you will fall in love with that person.

Life is like a train, there is an endless stream of passengers, and the only thing you need is someone who understands you.

as said in "palpitating Heart":

"one day you will meet a person as gorgeous as a rainbow, but when you meet this person, you will feel that other people are just foil."

when Shen Fu was 13 years old, when he and his mother returned to Ning, I accidentally saw the poems of Chen Yun, my uncle's parent's daughter.

the little teenager told his mother impulsively, "if you choose a woman for your son, you will not marry unless you are a sister."

you see, sometimes fate is so ingenious that you can be sure for the rest of your life even if you haven't seen the real face.

at the age of 18, Shen Fu married his cousin Chen Yun. Although the two were not rich, they always respected each other.

maybe the best tacit understanding in the world is like this: you love me, I love you.

Shen Fu named the book "six stories of floating Life" as a record of their married life.

A poem by Li Bai in the two dictionaries of floating Life:

"the man of heaven and earth is the reverse journey of all things; the man of time is the passer-by of a hundred generations." And floating life is like a dream, what is the joy? "

with the vast sea of people, a few people will eventually be able to walk into their hearts; over a long period of time, how many people will be able to spend time together.

Life is like a big dream, and there are few happy times. And if like-minded people spend time together, it will be enough to aftertaste half of their lives.

in our lives, when we meet love and joy, we are not rare. What is rare is to meet and understand.

those who have you in their hearts love your suffering and understand your tiredness, while those who understand you can hide all the wind and rain into careful guardianship without a word.

-02-

raise the case together with eyebrows and respect each other

many women say that they are not happy at all after they get married.

because everyone has their own edges and corners, if they are too clear, it is easy to hurt others and themselves.

in a good marriage, however, some people are willing to grind the edges and corners with the love of a bowl of chopsticks and porridge.

in six stories of a floating Life, there are several sweet plots:

Shen Fu called Chen Yun "handsome, exuberant, light-hearted" and "lingering and calming".

Shen Fu was keen on reading and painting, so Chen Yun collected the broken books for him, named "Ji Jian residual compilation", and glued the remaining paintings into a piece, called "abandoned residual appreciation Collection".

Shen Fu clothed Chen Yun with clothes and sleeves, and she must say again and again, "offended." When they meet on a narrow road, they are bound to shake hands with each other: "where are you going?"

Qixi Festival's "I take Xuan" to enjoy the moon, Shen Fu engraved the seal of "husband and wife", each holding one, envious of others …...

No wonder Lin Yutang said: Yun Niang is the cutest woman in Chinese history.

because, in the circumstances at that time, such a woman is really hard to find.

not only can she quietly hold out warm porridge dishes when Shen Fu is hungry and dislikes the sweetness of preserved dates;

can also talk about the past and the present with Shen Fu in the Canglang Pavilion, talk about romance and elegance, be more able to dress up as a man, and enjoy the lanterns in downtown with Shen Fu.

maybe her appearance is not very beautiful and will be surrounded by household chores, but in her ordinary life, Yun Niang always retains a considerate, interesting and virtuous heart.

We often say that the highest state of a couple is a close friend, a like-minded pursuit, a three-view goal, endless words, ears and temples, homomorphic shadows, and never feel tired of each other.

and Shen Fu and Yun Niang not only found the pleasure of meeting their bosom friends, but also found the joy of husband and wife life, no wonder Shen Fu said, "the joy of the world, there is no fault with this."

magnificent in the eyes of the world, rich clothes and jade food may not be happy, two thatched huts, cloth clothes and vegetables, but also cola for life.

there are too many unsatisfactory things in this world. What we can do is to find someone who loves each other, "lean on each other in the evening courtyard, and talk for a long time."

-03-

wish to win the heart of one person, white heads will not part with each other

Uncle has seen many couples quarrel, the most common sentence is: "how to meet you in this life, it is really bad luck for eight lives."

do not realize that it is easy to say vicious words.It's hard to take it back. It is like a sharp blade, stubbornly poking in each other's heart.

people will meet a lot of people in this life, but there are very few who can walk safely to the end.

At the age of

41, Chen Yun unfortunately died young. Shen Fu, who lost his beloved wife, seemed like a forest bird out of herd. He poured all the details of his life and his life with his mother into the book six stories of a floating Life.

"people seem to have letters from Qiu Hong, and things are like a spring dream without a trace."

the good old days, if not recorded on a piece of paper, will soon be eliminated, thus failing to live up to the love of heaven.

so, in an affectionate tone, he wrote beautiful love letters to Yun Niang:

newlyweds, reading together by candles, wanting to ask, in a trance …...

it is precisely because of this strong affection that Shen Fu describes the love of husband and wife that is common to all living beings.

there is nothing more joyful than this, and nothing more bitter than this.

on her deathbed, Yun Niang said to her husband, "my bosom friend is like a king, and I have a son-in-law. I have no regrets in this life."

and Shen Fu replied affectionately, "in the afterlife, you should be a man, and I will follow you for a woman."

We pursue a pair of people for a lifetime, but it is not worth the deep love between Sanbai and Yun Niang's husband and wife. It is detached and indifferent on top of the poor life and the harmony of Qin and Ming in a happy marriage.

No wonder posterity has a saying: I am willing to be a Shen Fu, and I am willing to be a Yun Niang.

-04-

what is true love?

before I met you, I didn't think of getting married; after I met you, I didn't think of anyone but you.

the tide of people is surging and the world is unpredictable.

there are six or seven billion human beings in the world, but there is always a soul with the same values that will meet you through a sea of people.

there are trees in the mountains, and the stars are just like you last night.

the rest of my life is long, please don't panic. It is a great happiness to find someone who understands you.

from then on, I will stand with you at dusk in my spare time, smiling and asking porridge in front of the stove.

Interactive topic

chat with your uncle about the book you want to read in the message area.

or what does the love you expect look like?

I will choose

10 bits

Book friends

,

send a copy of six stories of floating Life by Shen Fu

May you find someone who understands your soul,

keep this life together.

recently read a book in which he devoted his love at first sight and the case after marriage to a piece of paper and a pen.

the night is as cold as water, lying down to watch Petunia Vega.

this Qixi Festival, let's walk into the six stories of floating Life, which is known as "A Dream of small Red Mansions in the Qing Dynasty", and feel the cloth life of Sanbai and Yun Niang who "only envy mandarin ducks but not immortals".

I believe that after reading the article, you can also find someone who understands you to spend the rest of your life together.

-01-

like a rainbow, you don't know until you meet

WeChat moments read this passage:

the process of falling in love with someone is like looking in the mirror. If your soul is really seen by another person, you will fall in love with that person.

Life is like a train, there is an endless stream of passengers, and the only thing you need is someone who understands you.

as said in "palpitating Heart":

"one day you will meet a person as gorgeous as a rainbow, but when you meet this person, you will feel that other people are just foil."

when Shen Fu was 13 years old, when he and his mother returned to Ning, I accidentally saw the poems of Chen Yun, my uncle's parent's daughter.

the little teenager told his mother impulsively, "if you choose a woman for your son, you will not marry unless you are a sister."

you see, sometimes fate is so ingenious that you can be sure for the rest of your life even if you haven't seen the real face.

at the age of 18, Shen Fu married his cousin Chen Yun. Although the two were not rich, they always respected each other.

maybe the best tacit understanding in the world is like this: you love me, I love you.

Shen Fu named the book "six stories of floating Life" as a record of their married life.

A poem by Li Bai in the two dictionaries of floating Life:

"the man of heaven and earth is the reverse journey of all things; the man of time is the passer-by of a hundred generations." And floating life is like a dream, what is the joy? "

with the vast sea of people, a few people will eventually be able to walk into their hearts; over a long period of time, how many people will be able to spend time together.

Life is like a big dream, and there are few happy times. And if like-minded people spend time together, it will be enough to aftertaste half of their lives.

in our lives, when we meet love and joy, we are not rare. What is rare is to meet and understand.

those who have you in their hearts love your suffering and understand your tiredness, while those who understand you can hide all the wind and rain into careful guardianship without a word.

-02-

raise the case together with eyebrows and respect each other

many women say that they are not happy at all after they get married.

because everyone has their own edges and corners, if they are too clear, it is easy to hurt others and themselves.

in a good marriage, however, some people are willing to grind the edges and corners with the love of a bowl of chopsticks and porridge.

in six stories of a floating Life, there are several sweet plots:

Shen Fu called Chen Yun "handsome, exuberant, light-hearted" and "lingering and calming".

Shen Fu was keen on reading and painting, so Chen Yun collected the broken books for him, named "Ji Jian residual compilation", and glued the remaining paintings into a piece, called "abandoned residual appreciation Collection".

Shen Fu clothed Chen Yun with clothes and sleeves, and she must say again and again, "offended." When they meet on a narrow road, they are bound to shake hands with each other: "where are you going?"

Qixi Festival's "I take Xuan" to enjoy the moon, Shen Fu engraved the seal of "husband and wife", each holding one, envious of others …...

No wonder Lin Yutang said: Yun Niang is the cutest woman in Chinese history.

because, in the circumstances at that time, such a woman is really hard to find.

not only can she quietly hold out warm porridge dishes when Shen Fu is hungry and dislikes the sweetness of preserved dates;

can also talk about the past and the present with Shen Fu in the Canglang Pavilion, talk about romance and elegance, be more able to dress up as a man, and enjoy the lanterns in downtown with Shen Fu.

maybe her appearance is not very beautiful and will be surrounded by household chores, but in her ordinary life, Yun Niang always retains a considerate, interesting and virtuous heart.

We often say that the highest state of a couple is a close friend, a like-minded pursuit, a three-view goal, endless words, ears and temples, homomorphic shadows, and never feel tired of each other.

and Shen Fu and Yun Niang not only found the pleasure of meeting their bosom friends, but also found the joy of husband and wife life, no wonder Shen Fu said, "the joy of the world, there is no fault with this."

magnificent in the eyes of the world, rich clothes and jade food may not be happy, two thatched huts, cloth clothes and vegetables, but also cola for life.

there are too many unsatisfactory things in this world. What we can do is to find someone who loves each other, "lean on each other in the evening courtyard, and talk for a long time."

-03-

wish to win the heart of one person, white heads will not part with each other

Uncle has seen many couples quarrel, the most common sentence is: "how to meet you in this life, it is really bad luck for eight lives."

do not realize that it is easy to say vicious words.It's hard to take it back. It is like a sharp blade, stubbornly poking in each other's heart.

people will meet a lot of people in this life, but there are very few who can walk safely to the end.

41, Chen Yun unfortunately died young. Shen Fu, who lost his beloved wife, seemed like a forest bird out of herd. He poured all the details of his life and his life with his mother into the book six stories of a floating Life.

"people seem to have letters from Qiu Hong, and things are like a spring dream without a trace."

the good old days, if not recorded on a piece of paper, will soon be eliminated, thus failing to live up to the love of heaven.

so, in an affectionate tone, he wrote beautiful love letters to Yun Niang:

newlyweds, reading together by candles, wanting to ask, in a trance …...

it is precisely because of this strong affection that Shen Fu describes the love of husband and wife that is common to all living beings.

there is nothing more joyful than this, and nothing more bitter than this.

on her deathbed, Yun Niang said to her husband, "my bosom friend is like a king, and I have a son-in-law. I have no regrets in this life."

and Shen Fu replied affectionately, "in the afterlife, you should be a man, and I will follow you for a woman."

We pursue a pair of people for a lifetime, but it is not worth the deep love between Sanbai and Yun Niang's husband and wife. It is detached and indifferent on top of the poor life and the harmony of Qin and Ming in a happy marriage.

No wonder posterity has a saying: I am willing to be a Shen Fu, and I am willing to be a Yun Niang.

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-04-

what is true love?

before I met you, I didn't think of getting married; after I met you, I didn't think of anyone but you.

the tide of people is surging and the world is unpredictable.

there are six or seven billion human beings in the world, but there is always a soul with the same values that will meet you through a sea of people.

there are trees in the mountains, and the stars are just like you last night.

the rest of my life is long, please don't panic. It is a great happiness to find someone who understands you.

from then on, I will stand with you at dusk in my spare time, smiling and asking porridge in front of the stove.

Interactive topic

chat with your uncle about the book you want to read in the message area.

or what does the love you expect look like?

I will choose

10 bits

Book friends

,

send a copy of six stories of floating Life by Shen Fu

May you find someone who understands your soul,

keep this life together.