Your attitude towards money is your attitude and bottom line.
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money, fame and wealth, people in the world flock to, it represents wealth, represents status, but also the most controversial.
as the old saying goes, money is not everything, but without money is absolutely impossible.
about money, you need to know the following:
money is the stepping stone to friendship
some time ago, Xiaozhou, a girl from Chongqing on Weibo, said that she was very tangled: "my friend got married with 1500 yuan, but the other party received wedding candy but did not pay any money. How should this friendship continue?"
Xiao Zhou and Xiao Tang are former colleagues. Because they are of the same age and are often in charge of a project, they are closer than their average colleagues.
Xiao Tang got married a few years ago. Because of his good relationship, Xiao Zhou specially wrapped 1500 yuan in red envelopes.
"when other colleagues got married, I followed 500 because I felt I had a good relationship with her and specially prepared a big red packet."
later, Xiao Zhou resigned to start her own business. Xiao Tang went to her store and took a fancy to the products in the store. She gave it to her best friend without saying a word.
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before getting married, she specially drove to her best friend to send happy candy, and urged Xiao Tang to come to her wedding.
but Xiao Tang did not show up on the wedding day and did not follow the ceremony, and Xiao Zhou did not see her best friend until the end of the wedding.
Xiao Zhou began to lose her temper. She sent Wechat to ask Xiao Tang why he didn't come to her wedding. Xiao Tang said that he was too busy at work and forgot her marriage. He immediately apologized to her, but didn't say anything about the gift.
what is even more unbearable for her is that after a period of time, Xiao Tang actually called Xiao Zhou to help with his work, because he suffered a dumb loss about the gift money, and Xiao Zhou was angry at Xiao Tang: "remember when you ask me for help."
later, Xiao Zhou clarified the matter with Xiao Tang on Wechat. Unexpectedly, Xiao Tang never replied. The more Xiao Zhou thought about it, the more angry she became. She was not angry with the gift of 1500 yuan, but Xiao Tang didn't regard himself as a friend at all.
below netizens have said: 1500 yuan to know a person, it is worth it.
Brothers have to settle accounts clearly, not to mention friends, which is really chilling!
No matter how close you are, you should not communicate with purpose. True friendship is never about taking advantage of each other under the pretext of a good relationship.
if you ask to borrow money, I will lend it to you as soon as I have it. If you can turn around and return it to me, this is a friend. If you do not repay the money, you will maliciously satirize it in the name of a friend. This is the villain.
A good relationship should be to talk about each other and take the initiative to talk about money.
it is said that talking about money hurts feelings, but the friendship that can talk about money is stronger. Money is the bond of friendship, which will make the relationship more binding and the relationship between the two parties more dignified.
remember, good friendships are expensive.
money is the magic mirror of marriage
I have seen a variety show by Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yongyi.
program, the staff released Zhang Zhilin's pre-recorded "last words": if you had only 24 hours left in your life, what would you do and what would you say to Yuan Yongyi?
Zhang Zhilin said affectionately to the camera, "Yuan Yongyi, if I really leave, will you have enough money?" If you have said enough, then I will feel at ease. "
even kindergarten children know that they will buy candy for friends who play well, so you see, when you love someone, all you think about is that she can be happy, and money is the best way to express it.
as Sanmao said: "Love is not easy to Tian Chang Di Jiu (Eternal Dumpling) if it is not implemented in real life such as dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping."
money is the foundation of marriage and the material foundation, and marriage without material foundation is unstable.
what's more, 99% of happiness in life has nothing to do with money, and 99% of misfortune is related to money.
money is like a magnifying glass, expanding the trifles of marriage.
if you can see the true face of a person through money, it is also a good thing to stop the loss in time.
A woman who spends her own money is a sense of achievement, while a man's money is a sense of happiness. sometimes what she cares about is not how expensive the gift you buy, but whether there is a corner in your heart where she can be placed.
if you give it willingly, I can rest assured that bold flowers are the best appearance of love.
money is the touchstone of affection
there is an old saying: "relatives do not share wealth, but share wealth."
the "Brother coat" incident that exploded before proved this truth very well.
the coat, whose real name is Zhu Zhiwen, stood out in the talent show because of his simple and unique singing. Overnight, wearing a shabby army green coat, the impoverished construction worker became a household name.
I thought I could return to the village to benefit the villagers, but the villagers were ungrateful.
people who can't hit the par eight come to visit relatives and make friends, and the small yard is full of unfamiliar people.
repaired the road, renovated the kindergarten, electrified the irrigated fields, and was complained by the villagers that they had done too little or even smashed the merit card made for him.
buy a house but not a car, and even children who get married come to him to borrow money. Over the past nine years, they have lent out more than 1 million yuan, but no one has paid it back.
all the good deeds have been done, but none of the villagers said he was "good".
to make matters worse, some villagers went so far as to say, "if you want toWe said he was good. A man in my village bought me a car and gave me ten thousand yuan each.
I thought my life would be better and better when I had money, but I didn't expect to be hacked more and more miserably, and my life became more and more tired.
No wonder Brother Da Yi finally said, "I've been famous all these years, and I can see a lot of people." When you are short of money or need your help, I will tell you,'We are a family'. In fact, we have different opinions, and even hide a knife in a smile. "
money is indeed the touchstone of affection, everything is "profit" first, no matter how good the relationship may fall apart.
only when you are sincere can you change your heart. I am most afraid that I treat you as a relative and you treat me as a cash machine.
if you want to benefit yourself, benefit others first; if you want to reach yourself, you will reach others first.
the attitude towards money is enough to reflect a person's character, and people with good money will not be too bad.
the one who scrambles to pay the bill is not how rich he is, but that he wants to cherish this friendship with you;
the person who gives you gifts every now and then in the hope that you are happy is not born rich, but he wants to love you as much as he can.
the movement between relatives is not trying to take advantage of you, because they know that affection is a feeling that nothing in the world can stop.
in this life, everyone is running with each other, and there are too many forks in the road, and you don't know if the person who was traveling with you is still by your side after several twists and turns.
if you meet someone who dares to talk to you about money, cherish it. Don't lose the person around you who loves you most because of the money.
one book a week, no matter how busy it is, don't forget to recharge it.
Wen Qian, professional teacher of university broadcast host, Putonghua tester, member of Hubei recitation artists Association.