To think too much is to torture yourself.
To think too much is to torture yourself.
Instead of having thousands of knots in your heart, it is better to let nature take its course and let things happen.



have seen such a short story:

once upon a time, a couple made some money as a money dealer, but it was too hard to carry it with one hand over the years, so they discussed buying a mule to carry the goods. The wife asked whether to buy a male or a female.

the husband says it's good to buy a mother and can have a baby, but the wife says we can't afford to have a small one.

at this time, the two children heard. The eldest son said that he would buy the mother, and I would ride a small mule first. The second son said that he would buy the male if he did not let me ride first.

in desperation, the eldest son had to compromise, saying that we would ride together.

Father is unwilling, what if you ride together and break the waist of the little mule!

the family quarreled so much that the neighbor happened to pass by, asked why, and said:


stop fighting, mules can't give birth at all, there are no little mules!


I can't help but be happy after reading it, but when I think about it, aren't we one of them?

Life is not easy, so why bother.

especially those impractical things, it is easier to hold yourself back. People tend to ruin themselves because they think too much.

We adhere to Confucius'"look before you leap", but ignore the next sentence "again, Si can be".

most of the sadness in life is probably because they think too much and care too much, so they worry too much and worry too much.

as the saying goes: those who are willing to do so are tired; those who are unintentional do not care.

living is actually very simple, don't make it difficult for yourself, there is no need to worry too much about many things.

those who should stay will not go, those who should go will not stay, as if nothing has happened, is the best state of mind.


to think too much is to hurt yourself

No one's life can be plain sailing, and there are many people in this world who have tasted all their joys and sorrows.

there are countless bad things in life. The more you care, the more troubles will accumulate. Instead of asking for trouble, it is better to let yourself be bearish and wave goodbye to the past.

"Smart people don't pay attention to things they can't get, and they don't worry about them."

but worry is not cloth, how can it be broken? the only way is to awaken, face and transcend.

if you can think about it, happiness in the world is full of stars, and your eyes are full of stars; if you can't think about it, troubles are like sand everywhere.

there is such a story:

there was a rich man who was seriously ill, and it was useless to take a lot of medicine, so he felt restless and panicked, always feeling that he was going to die soon, and he was very sad.

later, he consulted a famous doctor living in seclusion.

after taking his pulse, the famous doctor said, "it's easy to treat the disease. All you have to do is go to a quiet beach every day and lie down for 30 minutes for a month."

the rich man was skeptical and did it. As a result, he lay down for two hours at a time.

the rich man is usually very busy and has never been so relaxed. he listens to the wind, the waves beating against the rocks rhythmically, and the chirps of seagulls one after another. The restless mood gradually stabilized.

here, he completely let go of the mall's plans, no longer competitive, but also forgot the secular troubles.

when he came home in a month, he felt comfortable all over, no longer the original restlessness, peace of mind, and slowly recovered from his illness.

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"the world is like a mirror: frown at it, it frowns at you; smile at it, it looks at you with a smile."

there is no absolute happiness in the world. When you think of heaven and hell, it only depends on whether you have a heart that you can think of.

because you see clearly, you are happy; because you are bearish, you are happy.

Life is like a dream, years are ruthless.

suddenly look back, only to find that people alive is a state of mind, quiet is the best health.


Don't think too much, do it and then

Japanese writer Matsuura Mitaro once said:

"those who are often trapped in anxiety and anxiety tend to think too much about the future."

sometimes, many people think that only when everything is ready can we start to do it, but the truth is, the more we think about it, the more likely we are to be held back by procrastination and anxiety.

some time ago, a colleague prepared to take a certificate and asked me how to prepare. My advice was even as detailed as how to take notes.

after a while, I asked him how he did in the certificate exam.

he said that this certificate is too difficult to take the exam, and he is afraid that he will not be able to pass the exam even if he is prepared carefully, which will not only waste time but also affect his work. Even if he is admitted, he may not be able to change anything, and his life may not be as good as he is now.

I smiled and said nothing.

there is no absolute everything in this world, too many worries and indecision will lead to hand-binding and even nothing in the end.

just like the farmer in the field, he did not grow wheat because he was worried about drought, because he was worried that cotton would not grow cotton, because he was worried that cotton would not grow cotton, and because he was safe, he would grow nothing, and in the end, he would get nothing.

sometimes, there is a kind of tiredness in life, which is called thinking too much, and there is a kind of failure, also called thinking too much.

people who think too much always try to control things that are beyond their ability, but turn a blind eye to those things that are within their ability, so they miss it again and again.A chance.

the most terrible thing about a person is that he is trapped by "thinking too much" when he is supposed to catch up.

when you have time to "think too much", you might as well sit down and read a book carefully, sort out your mind, let the mind that thinks too much, and restore calm.

Life is short, and opportunities are fleeting. Don't lose opportunities in thinking and waiting again and again.

"if there are flowers, you must fold them, but do not wait for flowers to break empty branches."

when you feel confused and don't know what to do, try to do the little thing in front of you and tell yourself:

just do your best and leave the rest to fate.

but do good deeds, don't ask about the future.


Life is nothing to worry about

A reader once wrote to Yang Jiang complaining that society was so impetuous that he had no intention of making progress at all.

Mr. Yang Jiang said in his reply: your main problem is that you don't read much and think too much.

Yes, doing is much more important than wanting.

the most beautiful scenery is not at the end but on the road. Only by taking the first step can we reap unexpected beauty.

only by putting aside unnecessary complaints, facing it with the most optimistic mood, and letting the smile grow on your face, can you reap real happiness.

take it easy on complicated things and lighten up on difficult things. If it is simple, it will not be entangled.

No one's life is perfect, only those who are contented and happy can make ordinary days dance.

even if you live in a shabby alley, eat and drink, you still enjoy it and take a leisurely walk; even if you have no millet storage and no resources, you are complacent and enjoy chrysanthemum and recite poems.

instead of having thousands of knots in his heart, it is better to let nature take its course and let things happen.

sitting and watching the flowing water and living freely and freely is the proper posture of life.

the rest of my life is not too long. May you and I not think too much, live too tired, be open-minded and be broad-minded.

love yourself and cherish the people in front of you.


one book a week, no matter how busy it is, don't forget to recharge it.

Wen Qian, professional teacher of university broadcast host, Putonghua tester, member of Hubei recitation artists Association.